For anyone that has ever thought about getting married?

Getting married in 16 days. BIG wedding. Mostly traditional, in a church with a reception etc.. The only thing I should have done differently is my wedding party. TOO BIG. I have 8 girls, 8 guys, 3 ring bears (triplets) and two flower girls. YIKES. The communication has been difficult. And pleasing people....GEEZ. a courthouse ceremony is sounding good right about now. My best friend just had a small wedding with the JP but they did it in a local parks rose garden. Then all went out to dinner. Simple but beautiful